
| Here's a great way to pay special tribute to both mothers on the day of your wedding. A red rose for your mother Arrange with your florist to have two extra red roses, complete with baby's breath and ribbon, placed at the back of your bridal bouquet. As you make your way to the alter, stop and present one rose to your mother along with a kiss and say, "I love you, mom." When the ceremony is over and you are walking arm-in-arm with your new husband, stop and repeat this gesture of love and respect with your mother-in-law. As you hand her the rose, you may want to add, "I'm happy to be a part of the family." This gesture is especially effective if neither mother knows you will be doing this. What a nice surprise!This honorable tribute not only will fill your mothers' hearts with joy and pride, it will also set the tone of the relationship you establish with your new mother-in-law, a harmonious bond that will last forever. NOTE: If either of the Bride or Groom's mother or father (or Grandparents) are deceased, a nice gesture is to lay a "white" rose on an empty chair. Presenting a white rose indicates that someone has passed on. Red roses are for the living. A white rose to honor a deceased mother or father. A symbolic gesture with a white rose may be preferable, instead of a spoken remembrance. A reading or mentioning departed love one's names can get very emotional. If the loss is recent, it may be difficult for, not only the Bride and Groom, but for family, friends and guests. |
| Honor Your Mother Ceremony |
| Creating Beautiful Wedding Memories |
